Choose not to become bitter
Jesus tells us to love our enemies, and pray for those who persecute us. It is important to note that Jesus did not ask us to love our enemies with the same warm affection we feel for those very dear to us. Rather than the love of the heart it is the love of the will; we choose not to become bitter. We avoid falling into the pitfall of dislike and hatred.
We forgive the unforgivable by choosing not to seek retaliation. This meekness does not denote weakness, rather strength. By choosing to forgive, we are freed from a lifetime's pursuit of revenge.
Do not seek revenge
This does not mean that we allow individuals to do what they like, unchecked. True love means that healthy boundaries must be set in place in family, community and society. However, we do not seek revenge. Punishment, too, should be remedial; aimed at cure, not vengeance. [1]
Love your enemies and pray for persecutors
Jesus taught during His Sermon on the Mount, "You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbour and hate your enemy. But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes the sun to rise on the evil and and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect." [2]
Created to be like God
In the beginning, humankind was created to be like God (3). The characteristics of God include universal benevolence, unconquerable goodwill, the ongoing search for the highest good of everyone. We are called to replicate in our life the unwearied, forgiving, sacrificial benevolence of God. So, the one who cares for others become perfect.
We realize the nobility of our humanity by becoming godlike. The love which never ceases to care for others, no matter what others may do to it, makes us like God.
Learn to forgive and love - be perfect
We realize our humanity, become perfect, when we learn to forgive, to love as God loves. This is the great Commandment of Jesus Christ, given on the mountain; "Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect." (4)
[1] Barclay, William. The Daily Study Bible. Gospel of Matthew, Vol 1; CH 1 - 10. Revised Edition. 1981. St Andrew Press: Scotland. Page 175
[2] Gospel of St Matthew, Chapter 5, verses 43 to 48
[3] Genesis 1:26-27
[4] Matthew 5:48
With thanks to William Barclay and the Bible
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